Hey, speaking of love, Shakespeare’s words are really wonderful. He said that love is like a fog, seemingly illusory and elusive, but once it is trapped, it is like being enchanted and unable to extricate itself. In this wonderful world of men’s and women’s feelings, love often comes quietly inadvertently, and the way often makes people unprepared and confused. If one day, you find that a girl has started to open a lot of permission to “touch” you, you must be careful. It is very likely that you have occupied a unique position in her heart.
First, her mysterious territory
Everyone has his own little world, which is just like a treasure map, hiding all kinds of strange things, and no one can just break into it. If one day, a girl suddenly says to you, “Hey, come to my house and have a look.” Even put your mobile phone directly into your hand and say generously, “Turn it over, just turn it over.” That’s not an ordinary relationship. This shows that in her eyes, you are a reliable person, and she thinks you deserve to be invited into her messy little secrets to see her little thoughts. She may be thinking to herself, “This guy is good, maybe he can spend the rest of his life with me.” If she even dares to show you the diary, don’t say it. She has treated you as one of her own and accepted you completely.
Second, her “breakthrough” moment
Everyone is weak sometimes, just like glass. It looks strong, but it breaks when touched. If one day, you see a girl crying silently in front of you, or showing a soft, weak and miserable look, don’t be impatient. This shows that she regards you as one of her own, and in her heart, you are her backer. If she is willing to show her vulnerability in front of you, it means that she has regarded you as her safe haven. At this time, if you can reach out and give her a shoulder to lean on, your position in her heart will immediately rise, and you will be as reliable as God.
Third, her blueprint for the future
The future is a picture in everyone’s mind, hiding all kinds of strange ideas and plans. If one day, a girl suddenly says happily to you, “I want to open a coffee shop in the future, will you help me?” Or “I really want to travel around the world, will you go with me?” Don’t think she is talking nonsense. This shows that she has left a place for you in her future plan. If she counts you in her future, it means that she has long regarded you as a lifelong companion and is looking forward to living with you.
Fourth, her “little moves”
For women, body language is much more powerful than talking. Sometimes a look and a gesture are more useful than saying 1000 sentences and 10000 sentences. If one day, you find that a girl is always unconsciously coming to your side, gently touching your arm, or pulling your hand, or staring at you with that kind of affectionate eyes, don’t take it seriously. It’s no accident, which shows that she is interested in you. She may think to herself, “This man is very attractive to me. I need to get closer to him. Maybe something can be done.” If there are more and more of her little tricks, you must seize the opportunity. Maybe she is the one for you.
In this complicated world of men and women, these small details of women are the signals of love. If you can catch these signals sensitively, don’t whine and act quickly. Pursuing love requires courage and sincerity. If you always look ahead and look back, it’s easy to miss good girls. So, don’t be timid, just do it! Maybe your happiness is just around the corner, just waiting for you to embrace it.